Jim Fife, OCPD

A fool rages and is self-confident. He who is impulsive exalts folly. Proverbs 14:16, 29 OCPD – Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder is a type of mental disorder in which the individual has a rigid and unhealthy pattern of thinking, functioning and behavior. This person has trouble perceiving and relating to situations and to people. This causes significant problems and limitations in relationships, […]

Pride Invites Destruction

True religion is a life that expresses its accountability to God.  Though Jim Fife calls himself a Christian, he’s had no accountability for any of the verbal and physical abuses I and my mother have had to endure from him.  Can a person be truly religious and still indulge in abusive behaviors on a regular basis?  I […]

Mom Distressed & Lamenting

June of 2014 my mother passed on.  Four months later I have the following warning dream; My mom and I are in my brother Dennis’s living room.  Dennis is lying on his sofa watching TV with his back to us.  Mom and I are sitting directly behind him.  Quietly, I tell mom that I’ve not received the […]

Signs of the Drawn Sword, the Charred Barn, and the Fuel in Hand

In May 2004 my friend Kathy and myself were doing a prayer walk around the perimeter of my families 10 acre farm, praying over the land and those who dwelt on it as God would direct us.  We stopped midway along the boundary of the east side of the property adjacent to my brother Dennis’ […]

Dr. Turkey, Psy.D

It is not good to show partiality to the wicked,  or to overthrow the righteous in judgment. – Proverbs 18:5 –    Several years ago a former president of the American Psychological Association estimated that even today, three out of four counselors are ineffective.  Some evidence suggests that a majority of counselors are even harmful. […]

Down Via Dolorosa

Most people targeted by verbal abuse try to explain to their abuser why what they’ve just heard is not true or not okay.  That is me.  If, I wasn’t trying to explain myself in hopes for the abuser to understand my intentions, I would become silent, stuffing all the hurt from the accusations the perpetrator […]